“The good stuff" was my husband's favorite fun phrase. It may have been a take on the book/movie title, "The Right Stuff" about early super-aero and NASA breakthroughs. But it was more than fanship - he used it a lot: according to him, The Good Stuff was a classification and praise from the heart - for his people, his class, his scouts, his USACE/Black Diamonds team, his Wellcome team, the good wine and good friends, at a good table, and ...me.Read More
It was 1996 - back to my hometown fixed a broken heart. After twenty years , most did not even know me. I'd been beautifully raised there, married, off with corporate life and love - parenting, then early and suddenly widowed and empty-nested. Triumph! But too soon, I was injured andhot-flashing with menopause - plus some burnout, fromreprising, TOO LONG, old response work , badly needed , during black Friday recession days.
And so it was Christmas 1996. Staying at the shelter, helping with things, and doing up alterations of gifted clothing for others, for their job interviews and doing cultural enrichment, includingmusic - arts and computer training: and even night watch, which was there for the men's but not the women's floor (worth another story).
Memories of forty years of bountiful Christmases helped a lot, just then, to generate some Holiday for me and the half dozen "mates" in the women's area of the gold coast shelter. But then another family death took even that. I did not even have money for a few Christmas Cards - let alone the hundreds I was used to, since childhood. My emotions were getting a bit scary. "ACT ! " "DO something" , , . I thought !
As painful as it was, a walk to town was one block away and I went to the art shop where I'd purchased my first artists' mannequin as a girl, and found the thing I needed ! The spark rekindled on the spot - I purchased it and limped back to the shelter, supper and a seat in the hall - making Christmas Cards with a stamp pad and Mary Englebreit's Santa image on the stamp, captioned, in large letters
The memory of a family movie trip and the Indiana Jones Library stamp scene came to mind and tears to eyes and laughter in the heart. I turned that thought as loose asI dared. With each stamp to card, the message of cheer and the word "BELIEVE" banged at my dulled consciousness and so I did more - and more, now repeating the message to ME and the others in the shelter -
Grasp the stamp: "Thud" to the stamp pad - "BANG" to card.
Again and again and again and again - till the murky emotions let up and "normal" was within reach and I marveled at how a thing COULD help. My mates reacted with holiday cheer and encouragement - yes.
NO is was not over for me: there were "complications" but abit later, my rescue came, correct care, mybungalow for business and pleasure - and my work at the White House! "Pretty good believing, no?" More than I dreamed!
YES I still have the kit and cards and have not needed to repeat the performance with them.
But this is about biographies - a huge thank you! Since girlhood I seem to reach for biographical reading whenever I am "in a brown study" over things, wanting a job or project, grieving, sluggish for emotional or physical reasons, in flux and lost. Somehow Biographies do the trick, when I must be still, my heroes swashbuckle for me ... (more)Read More
Just the start here - send me your ideas to add to it if you lke.
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Most of the food items take under 15 minutes to prepare, with healthy handy ingredients and wildly delicious flavor! Some feature your preferences for amount of ingredients and more. They borrow from all the popular diets and hopefully inspire you to turn loose your own imagination, once you get the knack....elle
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The blend of flavors is a very exciting and tasty with a bit of black coffee or tea alongside - like water for chocolate indeed. And elegant evening thing, I think - when it is time to relax and enjoy - alone or with friends, it creates a special moment.
HALF MEASURE FOR FULL MEASURE OF PLEASURE
This is not really a diet item, but an approach to making your diet WORK - Whatever it is, just halve the quantity of it - not all at once, but pick a starting point - right in front of you - and just start out cutting all you eat in half - if you normally eat two of a thing, eat one instead. And this includes sides and condiments - not just the main items and desserts. Example: at the 120 calories a tablespoon of butter or oil, use a teaspoon of it instead and WIN. If you usually have two burgers have one - with tasty beef as low fat as possible and stick to fresh veggies for toppings and watch the mayo - if you must have some, just use half of what you'd normally do. 0% FAT GREEK YOGURT works like crazy, for anything creamy - sweeten it or spice it , or turn it into a blancmange, but it works and is probiotic at 100calories a cup....a few tablespoons with chives or other herbs for your salad is almost calorie-free and yet realy tasty and supercreamy.
It's so easy - you can charm yourself into half the calories in this pleasurable way, you will lose weight and be able to keep it off. Of course a diet diary is smart, if you it works for you - it can make new dieters a bit crazy - a casual, but honest, mental tally might be easier at frst; make notes till you are into your stride in it about the food and the exercise:
NOTE: Increasing mobility is key and that way you feel better immediately and so are likely to stay with your plan.
HYDRATE FOR WEIGHT LOSS AND LOW PAIN
Keep water handy - plain, filtered, or add a squirt of lemon juice - just a bit so that when you taste it you do not want it sweetened. My carafe is old and hold exactly one quart, so I know what I have taken. A dieting body will lose some overeating urges with the waters, and it helps slough off the waste produced when we diet. Since you may be exercising more, the key to success is sipping a bit of water every few minutes.
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I know I won't see you this year, so I will send the good wish to you here and now.
Best wishes and thank you for the gift of yourselves to my life for so many years of uninterrupted love and laughter, on easy days and not-so easy ones. They can't take that away from me! I learned that one very well - that there is triumph in every scenario that ever had good days to it , even if it ends, and even if it ends with difficulty ! As people realize that they must put it away and get on with things, right where they are today, there is, often by surprise, the "Great day in the morning!" The good of the good days returns once the pain of separation is done and it is gold! This was true of your Father's early passing and true of your empty-nesting. I delight in it all ! Like found money, but better!
This topic, "Children" needs a separate blog. Nothing is more important than survival and our children are its basic element. I will make pages with stories, linked from this one.
It seems just a moment ago that I saw my husband-to-be and both our children in my "mind's-eye", and full or love and gratitude and commitment to them when they were the dream come true in my life. And yet, they are born, raised , empty-nested, and now married and preparing for children of their own and I am glad I started young - it saved me when thing got "interesting". They live distant from me, and I miss them very much, but am able to be busy and happy in my own pathway.
At this Mothers Day, this one is a love-note for my own children and all those in children's groups I was blessed to help in cultural enrichment, arts and crafts, swim club, junior olympics, BSA and GSA scouts, and endless response in good moments and challenging ones - now with their own children and some grey hair. Not possible!
Smile, children: I am still running around and coloring my hair down, senior fitness keeps me sparkly and wrinkle-fixers disappear them and lift the sags.
I am still "yours in a heartbeat" to talk all night long if you like, but nice to see you do not need much, and when there is the moment, you seem to figure it out just fine!
I am still so proud of you!
Stay young. Growth to adulthood and decline to our passing are naturally GRACEFUL - with the human complications to keep it lively all along the timeline.
You have no right to say 'old' - that is the business of your life drive and whatever you call the source of all life.
I still say, "Life is easy- pay attention" We don't, you know, and then we claim "complications".
Encourage your aging parents to stay young. In a minute that will be YOU needing to hear that one. And it can make a real difference. Again , you have no right to age yourself - it's a sin. No one has the right to undermine the life of another or of themselves.
I see that my aging is arriving almost 20 years later than it did for my parents - thanks to my parents, in many of its specifics - health, fitness, money, creativity, spirituality, and personal powers. My thoughts are satisfying - I have not ruled the world, so far, but put my hand to all I could do and I have done some things really well, so far, and have the drive to do more. Choose the good things for health and energy and ...yes...laughter and love are still the best!
See the miracles at later life - some things are forbidden by youth in its passions, and obligations and immaturities , but they get golden later in life. Since we are able to enjoy much better health, for many more years, we can do more. Factoid: Each year more are living to be one hundred years old, and that fact makes us realize that retiring from things too soon is unwise and even silly. Picture you in a rocker in a corner at 40-something, and STAYING like that for sixty more years. Silly.
At "upper midlife" you and I may be doing the best life ever, making the most money, and enjoying new things beyond our earlier dreams.
Whether that be for a day or for many years to come: never think "old".
For all things, there is a time to pass, and when it is my time, I pray that I can co-operate to make a fine day of it, for all involved. I want To leave with a blessing, not a curse, with loved ones near for a moment and then on again - love empowers.
"Love is a Freedom Song"
The Mommy Stories will be here as links to entertain you and some password protected , to protect the privacy, and keep it "entre nous" - you know who you are - find me for the password......elle
Best wishes for Easter / Spring 2017
O Radiant Dawn! Splendor of Eternal Life! Sun of Justice! Shine on those who dwell in darkness and the shadow of Death ! - I love this one of the famous "O Antiphons" - my favorite.
Easter falls on the first Sunday after the first Full Moon after the Vernal or Spring Equinox - to keep it in tune with nature and with Source of all nature, however you exprience it. Spring is a miracle, but can be capricious and laughs, as it defies Man's attempts at structure - with a blizzard and a record high in the first thirty days of this year's season in America's Northeast.
I love my present life and I believe it is powerful to visit the past and bring some of the best of it to the present and share it round for the future - a treasure to leave my busy children to enjoy later, when they like. And so this memory for you.
There had been grand life energies in my parents' large families that triumphed over wars, recession and even death. And having endure they truly rejoiced at " the Radiant Dawn"; they enjoyed in those years: beauty , love, prosperity, property, good work, love marriage and children - they sang and danced through their days and helped the others and were helped as life calls us to do.
And , oh, the holidays! It did not take much money to make it the best and done with youth and energy and hearts full of love and gratitude, they seemed always ambitious to share the good glow! I grew up thinking everyone did the same and many did. Hundreds of cards at Christmas and visits that took till New Years to complete. Gifts and cozy warm things and fun in the snow and all tucked up safe and sound in work and love.
And Easter brought the same wonderful feelings, although , until I was older, I remember finding the Birth of a Baby easier to understand than Redemption and Resurrection - my own shortfall did not daunt me - and I just enjoyed the renewal of the seasons - Spring!
Mornings smelled alive with new life and the wonderful New England soil - as soon as I could, I planted my first little garden and aunties and uncles smiled an told me lots about flowers and trees, so I would know a bit about what I was doing - they liked my many questions. And later the fun of sketching and painting them - and making photos with my own first camera. Yes.
My Dad was musical and a tecchie - his record collection would be worth a small fortune today and some of it was saved, including the wonderful Easter music, still sung today - "Here comes Peter Cottontail!" , "Poor Floppy" and others to make the days a happy dance.
There seemed to be Jellybeans and chickies and bunnies and Easter eggs everywhere! The large sugar ones with hollow centers filled with dioramas to enoy thru a peep window at one end! For me - already interested - there were Instructions for the crafts - coloring the eggs!
Who would guess in in 1957 that that one day one fancy egg of mine would be viewed by a First Lady of the United States of America at the White House - but my happy heart on the subject is a fine thing to enjoy - a thing that no one can daunt. I see the proud faces of my relatives, though I lived distant from them at the time and joyful phone calls had to be enough.
It was the delight in doing up the simple little happy colored eggs that inspired and the Mommies who showed us how it was done. Boiled and colored and served to many guests with the fancy beets and horseradish sauce that won over the flatness of egg and brought bright pink to the table, with the Easter ham, and irish bread and Polish borscht for spring with the special spring sausage! The kitchen was boiled to shining before, during and after - and even Mother's new range was pink with pushbuttons!
Then, since it was all about Jesus somehow - and very sad, but then happy again - we would take some of the food in a basket to church for the Priests' blessings, so that all from the kitchen would be good and blessed, and always with new happiness, too!
And Spring meant putting the winter things away - all the fine and not so fine would be done till after Autumn when the weather chilled again. For now it was Spring and joyfully running about with Mother and friends for the gay spring things for home and wardrobe - plenty of the light wools often in lilac - including the lilac blossom-clustered hats that were popular at the time. We love to look our best and win the respect of the women and the affections charming our men - then and now!
Such happy bustle and prayer at end of day - thanking God for the good grace! Odd - somehow my own love and work does not feel the same as those endless glowing days as a child in that world. And yet, I know I did similarly with our own son and daughter later on with extra to spare for all the other children near us, so grateful to have that example to pass on. They are married and I hope they will want to make their own version of it all to share with children of their own, but if not, at least they have that good in them from us.
Those bunnies! Chocolate ones in pretty baskets woven and full of fun green grass and cellophane - or bunny cakes or the wonderful huggy ones, small and huge later on for fun! But most of all , one year there were real bunnies, as we scampered at our parents' call one Easter morning to enjoy the living room egg hunt before church - out from behind Dad's lounge chair they came, to make us catch our breath - the thrill! "Lippety, lippety ! lippety, lippety !" two tiny marvels to pet and feed and love. Soon we had proper lessons in their care and Dad built a hutch in the back yard for them and finally trained them to enjoy the back yard and then on their own in our wooded yard with brook nearby.
And someone's baby bunnies showed up the next year! I share the story to share pure pleasure and inspiration. All these years later, I remember and it feeds me - a life thing! Not only our own family circle but Easter at the homes of friends and family living distant dance again in my mind - one did the ancient egg crafting with the waxes and dyes. Another did up an Easter Egg Tree, and another lived in the garden feeding the lilacs and planting for the warm months to come. And instead of a teddy bear, a musical stuffed lamb was mine - of real sheeps wool - I was sad to outgrow him but at that point someone "disappeared" him and yet I guessed it was time. Growing up is fun and we must not be babies.
Especially not at Easter !
The Church music and Handel's Halleluja Chorus or Leonard Cohen's - the world sings - the air sings with rains and breezes and our hearts sing, every time we're not looking , especially!
Winter and War may have their way - but I am Spring and I win!
May it be, for you and yours always.
If you would like to share a thing here, please feel welcome.
In spite of the fact that most third graders could understand the technology needed to make these upgrades, to which we have RIGHTS ,as we have rights to life, we are told it cannot be done. The thing for buildings is even cheap - easy - and could be in progress in a year. The one for the planes of course, is harder; it involved some basic restructuring and lots of safety tests before the ejection enabled cabins could be in use. But it is surely the way and we can do it and should. NOW.
Please do a little research online on this topic and you will see - then email your leaders to ACT - it is shameful that this issue has been so long neglected.
If we are clamoring to make America Great Again , we need to look, first, in the mirror, and not always rant at the government or family or other loved ones on the topic. It is so wonderful to simply realize that there is, quite likely, one small thing each of us can actually DO to be worthy of our citizenship in a government of, for, and by the people ( i.e., us - you and I) The famous G.B. Shaw wrote this one and its lines are true and helpful to beat "the Januaries".
The first time these words [by G.B.Shaw] were printed was in an article entitled 'Art and Public Money', published in the Sussex Daily News (7 March 1907). *
Also named "A Splendid Torch" or, "Purpose" - this is A New Years Inspiration for everyone! A vitamin of a sort, from George Bernard Shaw, one of my least favorite persons, but most favorite storytellers. It is reprinted everywhere under several titles. I hope you enjoy the easy read! Elle
This is the true joy in life,
the being used for a purpose
recognized by yourself as a mighty one;
the being a force of nature
instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of
ailments and grievances
complaining that the world will not
devote itself to making you happy.
I am of the opinion that
my life belongs
to the whole community,
and as long as I live
it is my privilege
to do for it whatever I can.
I want to be thoroughly used up when I die,
for the harder I work the more I live.
I rejoice in life for its own sake.
Life is no “brief candle” for me.
It is a sort of splendid torch
which I have got hold of
for the moment,
and I want to
make it burn as brightly as possible
before handing it on to future generations.
** p.s. thank you to Prof. Martin who found the exact source for this famous writing at
Gustavo A. Rodríguez Martín
Dpto. de Filología Inglesa
Fac. de Filosofía y Letras
Universidad de Extremadura
Campus Universitario, s/n
Cáceres, 10003 - ESPAÑA
Happy New Year! And MANY MANY more are likely to be yours according to reliable media. Every year more people live to be over one hundred years old and more-or-less lucid and enjoying quality days!Read More
"Ekphrasis" - a segment of the Art-stravaganza of Open Studio Hartford, extols images from its group show in song and dance and poetry. This year - it's eleventh - I am honored to say that Poetess Susan Mardinly made the poem "In the Woods" about my painting of the same namehere. Comment Welcome. Thank you at Thanksgiving to Susan and her beautiful verse!
In the Woods
Light shines upon the forest stream,
facets dancing upon rocks and pebbles,
singing to us, knowing we also are fashioned of light,
magnetic, electric, fused,
particles, forms, waves,
of dreams, of unperceived matter,
of fundamental knowing,
but always drawn light unto light.
Prisms of cumulus rainbows,
flashing through the eye of winter snow,
reflecting upon limbs and branches,
illuminating watery paths above and below,
a recipe made of hydrogen and oxygen,
metamorphosis beyond human ken,
in sound streaming, in heat dancing,
or scattering in luminescent flow.
Far beyond reason or logic,
inspired by these miracles,
we become trained to see with other eyes:
smaller worlds that dwell enlightened:
tree roots wriggling in shimmering growth,
caravans of ants as they scurry to bring food,
flowers in unencumbered rest far beneath the sparkle,
new life about to emerge from joyful winter dens.
Taking this wild journey in the woods,
shimmering insight burns away dross
radiant within the light that imbibes us:
in optical duality, in mirrors upon mirrors
our inner blaze transforming,
listening to the speed of creations’ flashes,
to the scent of fire’s kindle, the taste of luminous fruit,
of healing love that light sustains.
copyright © 2016 susanj mardinly
Such sneaky kitties! Going from Halloween wild fun, straight on to Christmas - skipping the "Thank You" in-between. If you know when this began, it would be good to comment on it here. BECAUSE skipping the Thank Yous can be dangerous: if we fail to appreciate it, we'll lose it .
Fortunately there are no one-way streets in this world, actually - so we can fix the places where we veer off the winning path.
To start, we should restore the Thanksgiving season among us as the GOLDEN - not BLACK - time of year it is supposed to be. GOLDEN FRIDAY, and no longer Black Friday is just so much better in every way! Healthier and more cheerful and less rotten greedlust. I have heard a dozen explanations of why they chosethen name, "Black Friday" for a day of joyful gift shopping for the coming winter holidays.
I don't believe any of it - Black Friday is straight from Mordor and like the evil powers in the dark days of Middle Earth, in "Lord of the Rings". Black Friday reeks - its emanations are insidious and folk do not realize the evil till it dominates and it begins to hurt - really hurt - and then they wail and yell. I plan to begin an online petiton on this topic and more. Comment here if it interests you.
The stock market is up, and we can all do our part to "Make America Great Again" and it is easier than you think. There is probably a good talk at your home, church or wlrkplace to get people thinking winning thinking again and then most can do a small thing that helps and support those whe are doing the bigstuff.
We have a long list of thanks to share this year! Most conditions have improved and we can ACT again and appreciae teh good in our lives, plain and fancy! We jump up in the morning and run to do our day and often there is not time to stop and appreciate, they say. NOW there is time and we should not skip the Thank yous. The day comes when we hang our heads in sorrow and acceptance of our failures, but it does not need to be that way, so much.
Look in the mirror and thank yourself, for at least aiming to NOT fail YOU. Then look around you - your warm home in cold weather and AC for the hot days; full fridge, and shops for the bit of delicious healthy things and sinful treats as well. People to share with - to wave hello and big farewll and friends to work with and play with, and maybe if you are realllly blessed a special someone who makes it all effortless - to celebrate with now and remember later!
We are free and healthy or cared for if we are not fit for the road race! We seen the new problems of the new millennium but we are ready to go at them and win! IN fact, with interplanetary and space and astral things evolving so, peace on earth is likely to become closer to a reality than ever, since we are likely to be TEAM EARTH in all the real ways that used to be science fiction.
Thank you for this day to see these miracles and may we be worthy and quick and full of fun while at it...and full of thanks afterward!
Politics has NOTHING to do with good government and yet we take it that way every time for the esprit - our lives and the lives of our children are at stake and we "mostly show up and make noise". It's such a poor show that if we fail, it will most likey be about audience disinterest. We are government of, for and by the people - for good and ill. We can bring a government to life and we can kill. This particular election has been a "first" for me - FEARful. After the way it has evolved, I think you should "vote for Elle" as they said in Legally Blonde 2. THIS Elle, though.
Why vote for ELLE SMITH FAGAN - she is America.
Born of parents with classic, romantic and sociologically key backgrounds, her upbringing was trained for something - the best of character and priniciple and she soared and prospered. She was red cross during VietNam and pioneer and charter member and startup crew for most of the headliners of the seventies. Some classified things. Then came death and the recession and she suffered brutally, while saving her children and a few others in response works. She understands and got her self to war and to the homelessshelters helping from her strong Red Cross experience AND to the White House with her Artisanal Jewelled egg from her strong Arts background and education....and the underlying passion for America and Compassion/Intellect in balance carried her in fine health to this day. So vote for Elle is not so far off an idea.
Her platform? Clean and Green - honesty and disclosure. Thinking out of the box to optimize the box. Breakthroughs she would win, in a few basics that should have won thru a long time ago in the following areas just to start:
WORLD PEACE - Wars can be reduced and even eliminated by strengthening the power of negotiations and agreements. And we won't do it. KEVLAR and other top equipment for ALL our soldiers under fire. The number of casualties can be greatly reduced by better safety provisions for our fighters; I think it a monstrous thing that our heroes are NOT equipped by the military for lifesaving needs. Instead, they must buy their own bulletproofing! How Wildly wrong of us! And, even then, much of what is offered them is sub-standard - not really topstuff. They are laying their lives on the line for us and we fail them! We will pay - ARE paying - whether we know it or not.
TECHNOLOGICAL LIFESAVING - seatbelts on trains and busses and safe paths and train tracks and my top banner? Occupant Safety and Escape tech: Nineleven did not need to happen - we bought it. If intelligence could not prevent it, responsible Occupant Safety and Escape Technology would have done two things: ONE: it would have allowed for safe escape and almost zero loss of innocent life. It was promised over 50 years ago and easy tech today. But Architecture and Aeronautics squelch the topic and bribe media and government to leave them alone on the subject ! And, though thousands die needlessly, you won't see even a story about it on tv or in the papers. TWO: with the safe egress of the peopel guaranteed, the terrorists would have NOT been interested in them as a target - why? No one would be hurt, and so no motive. The mechanics are easy today and affordable and able to be installed in existing structures.
MONEY - Our issues can be resolved and our national debt honestly reduced to zero or near so, like any honest production. And we won't do it. HOW? A simple list that WORKS for other nations and would work for us easily if we were not determined to be blockheads on the subject:
1. OWN the casinos - adds a lot of money and subtracts a lot of crime in that realm
2. All prisoners in our jails and prisons EARN their keep and a bit to put by - that makes the prison system self-supporting and NOT a tax burden or addition to the national debt; it keeps the prisoners growing in work ethic character and not crime-ethic ways; it allows us to imprison as fully as we should instead of letting them loose to commit more crime and learn nothing to help them become honest citizens. Do not tell me it cannot be done. It is easier than ever.
3. Call in our debts - government in our country thinks it is a country club and the suggestion that people pay us what they owe strikes them as bizarre, when it is a basic to decency , honesty and NOTfraud.
4. WINNING by EARNING the right to become American: I am not sure of this one, but it at least shows thought: to cut down on the influx of aliens, allow the green cards if they subscribe to becoming American with a subscription fee, payable from earnings. They must not be unemployed. The prison concept updates helps here since, if prisoners must work and earn while in prison and the prisons are self-supporting, then we can incarcerate vagrants / unemployed illegals and let them earn it, if they want it here. Most of us had to EARN the good things we enjoy and yet these people just pile in and bully everyone and we are supposed to let them do this? no. The prison idea works because the drug and crime re: illegals are minimized and good character growth improved within prison walls. Of course one would not imprison these with hardened felons.
REGAINING LOST HUMANITY IN EVERYDAY LIFE IN AMERICA - we have been amazing in our response to the population explosion, and two-career households - provided thousands of paths to adequately provide goods and services for all these people! But we really lost it at first and it still shows. So let's take a breath and center a bit and put on a more civilized show now: the little things that mean a LOT : Simply saying "children" instead of "kids" so much would give people what they say they want. Wearing a suit at work time, a gown at the evening event and recreation wear and casual wear more and much less overuse of jeans. Small things like that make a big difference in the human midset. Regaining balance and putting the sex and violence back in perspective with the whole of human experience in every place in society: media, like our tv and film and literature and music and schools and churches and social scenarios. We can also do a few things that empower our compassionate response and minimize costs and margin for error and increase the effectiveness of the many helping groups.
WE CAN FIX things because of our wonderful empowering and adaptable Constitution. Still, We buy our issues with both hands and then expect respect when we merely react to them like hysterics and refuse to simply "set it back to rights" .
We need to continue in equal rights on the basis of any criteria, including age and we will be doing it right: we lean on youthful members of society too hard because at least nature makes them see life as easily do-able, though they lack the sense of experience and care, and wisdom and right-minded use of power that only comes with age. We need to mix it up better and lovingly and it gets better. NO entitlement or bullying - that is not rights - that is "might makes right" illegal. One bully is the same as another.
Our nation, The United States of America, was and is the best every dreamt of, bled for and won! We have no right to neglect her to death! Vote for Elle and at least that much will be better.
"We are sorry, there is no such site."
Displayed when I asked for MY arts site of fourteen years - ellefagan.com. IN the following days, more and more website functionality issues tumbled onto my desk, with my formerly-beloved web host, Aplus.net. The Aplus super Customer service had been grand in helping set up, upgrade and fix issues, and get right back to work for years.
NOT THIS TIME - not only were there repeated issues with Aplus, that worsened - the customer service people became malicious. It became a bad dream for me with Aplus hosting and that resulted in a complete site crash at end 2014.
What happened: The checkbook company, Deluxe For Business, or DFB, had bought out Aplus, and I thought that might be grand! Their ownership should not have upset my pages. But it did, very much! Site visitors dropped from really nice, for a small private site, to almost zero. Normally, even while disabled, nice extra Holiday sales would help make a Happy Holiday to share. NOT this year!
Time for me to leave them. Things were disintegrating. They keep archives of websites in case of crashes or power-outs, but they would NOT give me a copy of my site, and a nice goodbye, so I had to go to my FTP pathway and haul ten years of files from their files to my desktop - which fried the computer - a trusty iMac that had two more years of NORMAL use to it.
Worse: Aplus' people also simply cut me off from MY domain name <ellefagan.com> and used it for their ads! I was able to get the law at them immediately . They stopped exploiting my domain name. But they would NOT transfer it back to my domain name store, so I could use it at the new web host's . That was December 2014. Domain names renew each year at the same time as the date they were first purchased. And since <ellefagan.com> would renew again in February, I watched it at the domain name company and bought it back at renewal time with a forwarding command to the new domain I had by then. Yikes!
The old pages would have to be redone and updated, anyway, or at least transferred manually to the new site. And the COST to me in equipment, stress and missed holiday sales was NO joke. My old attorney had retired and the new one needed a larger retainer than I could afford. Cry if you need to. Then, Pray and get to work.
Still technically disabled, but "fine" now, that website <ellefagan.com> had contributed to my survival daily and was key to regaining financialy "fine" as well. So I ran to see if I could find a DECENT new web host. I still think it was an angel - suddenly, I"just found" them - "Squarespace", a fine and popular company, with , actually much more to offer for my needs, and for nice decent money. I Googled them and the stories about Squarespace were encouraging. Anddddd they are arts-friendly and so, I thought, maybe this find was going to bea left-handed blessing - to cheer my Christmas.
But Winter Holiday 2014, I spent pre-Christmas sale time, crying, working to fix the issues, settling and doing up the new site... often missing the rapport of those years when I'd chat with Ivan Vachovsky, Aplus' genius entrepreneur, and the site folk, for one thing or another and it always had gone so nicely - and for years- so I was hurt to lose them. NOT a good Christmas!
I used a small immediate lawsuit win/chargeback - from Aplus, to buy the Squarespace site, at the end of November 2014 . Rocking from the upsetting farewell from my old world, it was now 2015, and I had a new world online to get to know. And, with Aplus hurting my domain name <ellefagan.com>, my part of cyberspace would be injured - maybe for good. I had to use my name in full <elleSMITHfagan.com> for the new site.
I smiled. I am like John Hancock, on the Declaration of Independence, now with a huge big name....<ELLESMITHFAGAN.COM>. I reacted: "ok, demons from hell, if you hated <ellefagan.com> you may have <ellesmithfagan.com> and like it. So there! I smiled a little bit for the first time in weeks.
Still, it would have been nicer to skip the issues. To stay out of trouble in the first place is better than rescue in the second place.
It is two Christmas Seasons coming now and I am thrilled with Squarespace and my life is normal again. A few months ago , I even did my first big upgrade with them. Their staff is ALL English-speaking and maybe that is a help in tech issues galore with a nice content-rich site like mine. Andddd....their templates save more time than I can believe. Super! I have no perception of the online/offline issues - all my famly are tech-comfy. I did my first data things in 1969.
I am fine and hope you will enjoy your visits to my wonderful Squarespace site as much as I enjoy making them for you!
Do not let the cheery pumpkins fool you - I have scary stories to share at Halloween at this true stories blog. But should they be shared at all? Grownup scary stories are not pretty.
Mayborn, my life has been a blessing, and very normal; these stories only a fraction of my generally happy life. More - these stories enjoyed happy endings, but I certainly do have my moments - and then I realize most folks do.
Life is not "Trick or Treat" but Trick AND Treat !
A list of my scary stories - details on requestRead More
I think I am lucky - raised well with "the good lights" and a family who passed on their love of nature and life in all forms - here it is Autumn and the time of Harvest and taking stock, and being sure that all is set safely till Spring. Winter in Connecticut can be grand and a fairy treat, sparkling with cold or a long dreary trek, but Autumn if done well, makes all the difference.Read More
ART WITH HEART at Elle Fagan Art makes OUTRIGHT DONATIONS OF ARTWORK FOR YOUR FUNDRAISER, CHARITY OR CAUSE. I am lifelong arts, but also used to do response and compassionate and pioneer work and now, I donate art outright for full or part benefit.
Art With Heartdoes happy 50/50s with charitable events for top images, for a good cause - Contact for details.
Art With Hearthelps you to own the painting you want here, AND help your favorite cause, as well.
Today the testing is easy and liberally covered by insurances and almost required, because it saves lives, and that might have included mine in 2009 - but did NOT. And my happiness and insights made it necessary for me get active about helping with Awareness every October and I love it! It's an honor to share the good news we enjoy toay - IF.....Read More
No one believes me, and when they do, they never approve - they feel uncomfortable and sometimes, so do I, but it is time to share the memory anyway.
Mind's eye - with happy parents and romantic ones, and seven Irish Uncles on Dad's side, I was bound to be a bit fey. NOT always happily as when I'd find "The Merry Widow Waltz" strangely appealing - my Father said " you peeked" - looking into your own future. The idea that I would probably be a widow if statistics held, but not necessarily so unhappy....things like that make it difficult to share sometimes.Read More
Summer 2016 marked the 35th anniversary of the year that Aneurysm issues hit home and changed our lives forever! When suddenly widowed to the "Time Bomb In the Brain", there was not much we could have done to prevent it. NOTTANYMORE! Share the message to any you know who may be at risk for it: Get the Tests! They save lives.....and enjoy this post and comment as you like - find me as needed - I am here for this one.....elle.Read More
5th Annual ENVISIONFEST SEPTEMBER 17th Downtown Hartford, Connecticut USA ! A good time was had by all! Color, music, art, dancing, games, food and fun for a fine show of folk celebrating Golden Autumn!Read More